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Get Back Together With Your Ex As A Result Of Becoming Less Reachable And More Of A Challenge
You had been a challenge for her. You had a superior appeal and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm going to make a wild guess here, but is it that as time went on, you grew to be less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that now, you might be zero challenge for her? And that she knows if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and twisted around her little finger simply by saying the word?
I am going to be a bit crude here, but as you know, to become a challenge again you need to show to your ex girlfriend that her sexuality has no influence over you any more. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think about exactly what it is like when you continue doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other options.
Your lady is not going to respect you again until you refuse her sexual influence over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not directly communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Make sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Be careful not to be "pals" with her, because that rewards your ex with the continued validation of power over you while giving her a convenient excuse to stay split up. (Your ex reasons that she is letting you down easy this way, assuaging any guilt she may feel.)
However, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your things. Probably lots of your belongings are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She may get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want everything returned.
The very best response to this is simply "No, not yet. The reason is because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the up coming 3 weeks, you need to fully accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you are an independent person now. Take what occurred with your ex-lover and learn from it. You have a golden opportunity to revolutionize your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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